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As my boyfriend (who is a white male himself) puts it, “Every white guy wants to have sex with an Asian girl, but not all of them want to date one.” We all know the popular slang term “yellow fever”, which describes a (usually) white male who fetishizes Asian women.
We were talking and he told me to purchase whatever I like, but remember that I want to have kids in a few years and that I would have to get a new car.My bet is that the root of it is some kind of fear or bad experience.I don’t know the guy or have much information on him, so I am just making a guess.I love him for who he is, not for the colour of his skin. if you liked this post, you might like this post on awkward phases I had as a Toronto kid.And I definitely don’t see him as a white guy – I just see him as my guy. I felt like I was sort of “upgrading” in a way by moving away from my heritage. Adam and I have been dating for over a year, and I’ve learned that we are very much alike.
I felt proud that I was more white-washed than all my other Asian friends. Although we grew up with some very different traditions (my Chinese/Vietnamese heritage and his Canadian/Jewish heritage), we pretty much went through the same circumstances as Canadian children.As a young Asian woman, I am no stranger to feeling fetishized by white males.During the year and a half I was on Tinder, white males of or around my age sent me messages such as “you’re my first Asian”, “Asa Akira”, “you look like an Asian goddess”, and best of all, “don’t Asian girls love white guys?” I was born and raised in Toronto by my parents who were also raised in Toronto, so I was just as westernized as these guys were.When I received messages from other people of colour, they didn’t even mention anything about the fact that I was Asian.If we’re being honest here, I was one of these girls at one point.