25 dating deal breakers and how to spot them

25-Aug-2020 06:28 by 3 Comments

25 dating deal breakers and how to spot them

By now most of you have probably recognized the important point for women, which is implicit in my astonishment: men do not fall in love gradually, and they do not find themselves suddenly falling for women in whom they weren't initially interested.

So many of the women that write to me for advice have stories that go something like this... I never really considered him a potential boyfriend, but then he asked me out.

At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.

A reader recently asked me if I've learned anything new about women from writing this blog. To be specific, I've learned one thing - one important thing.

So, in general, a man can evaluate a woman quite quickly. Many of a woman's triggers for romantic love are less immediate: In other words, while a man judges his woman primarily in relation to himself, which he does quite quickly, a woman evaluates her man on how he relates to the outside world, and this takes longer.

In addition, and perhaps more importantly, a woman needs to gauge her man's reliability, and this demands time.

Also, I am not saying that this is the only way women fall in love, or the most common.

I recognize that women can experience something closer to "love at first sight." The important thing to recognize is that you cannot expect (much less make) a man gradually fall in love with you in the same way that you might fall in love with a man. Male romantic love is something that either starts early and continues, or else doesn't start at all.

I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.

If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.

Before long I started getting attached and soon I found myself falling for him.

We spent a lot of time together, and by three months I was in love.

I speculated that the women writing to me were subject to some kind of wishful thinking or tunnel-vision, by which they focused only on the good in their boyfriend rather than the advantages of other men. A woman couldn't wishfully think herself into a degree of love so strong that she would feel compelled to write me for help.

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